Time for a change.

I have been single for nearly 6 years. Before I found out that I was with child, the baby daddy and I had a huge break up. I haven't dated, wasn't really open to dating, and definitely was not looking. There have only been a few men that has caught my eye, but I never tried to pursue any of them.

One reason why I haven't put myself out there is because I have a daughter. I just don't want to have different men in and out of my life, and she think that's the way to live.....although, she wouldn't meet anyone I date unless I know it's something serious. But the main reason why I never put myself out there is because I lacked the confidence. I never really dress up, and barely buy myself nice things. I picked up quite a few pounds and really just let myself go.

I am not getting any younger.

I have decided to start putting more effort into looking nice and putting myself on the market again. There is no reason for me to continue on with this long drawn out pity party I have been having. Life happens, but I must keep pushing. I have learned that no one will love and respect me and I don't first love and respect me.

No excuses.
Time for a change.
Love.